"I know it's not a perfect metaphor. Like any it breaks down if you take it too far. But facing what happened hurts and you can't just push it into a corner and hope it goes away by itself. Trust me."
"Deep, unspeakable suffering may well be called a baptism, a regeneration, the initiation into a new state." she quotes. "And we're not quite as alone in this."
"Why do you think I came over here. No, of course Sam and me won't be able to support you in this like we try with each other, but you're not alone either."